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Have you received a disclosure of sexual violence? When responding to disclosures, it is important to feel as ready as possible. It's normal and okay to feel unsure. Use this acronym for an informed and caring response.
Begin by listening to the survivor. Recognize not everyone will use the same language to describe what happened to them.
Be mindful to let them lead the conversation and not ask for details of their experience.
If your position requires, let them know about any mandatory reports before they proceed:
Empathy goes a long way. Remind them that no matter what happened, it’s not their fault.
Create a plan for checking in / following up.
Recognize that disclosing can be traumatic but avoid making assumptions about what they are feeling.
Also take the time to appreciate the ways that they have survived so far.
All survival strategies are valid. Even if it's different from how you chose to cope.
With their consent, direct them to some supports and resources that may be useful.
Be prepared - knowing what is available and the best ways to offer those referrals.
Take care of you and your needs.
Engage in community and self care.
Hearing a disclosure of sexual violence may be difficult for you. Support is available for you as well.
When responding to disclosures, here are some things that you should not do.
If you receive a disclosure of sexual violence, it is important that you inform the person making the disclosure of your commitment to keep confidential all information that is provided.
It is also important to inform the person disclosing information that there are limits to confidentiality.
An important part of supporting an individual who has been impacted by gendered or sexual violence is to provide them with accurate information about their options and the resources that are available to them. It can sometimes feel hard or overwhelming to navigate resources or systems after experiencing gendered or sexual violence. An important part of supporting someone who has disclosed to you is to assist them in finding resources that they want or need.
Before exploring options:
You are encouraged to refer the individual to our office at svinfo@wlu.ca. If the person making the disclosure needs support with the referral, get their consent to email our office and CC the survivor in the communication.
If you are in need of support outside of regular university hours, or wish to make an appointment with on-campus counsellors from the local sexual assault support centres, contact:
“Self-care is about creating and maintaining practices that help you sustain your energy and spirit in whatever life path you choose. It also makes you a better friend, community member, lover, partner and caregiver. When you give to others but neglect yourself, feelings of resentment can arise because you sacrifice your own needs.”
Farrah Khan, Caring for Yourself Is a Radical Act
Laurier’s Gendered and Sexual Violence Prevention and Supports operates on the sacred and traditional land of the Anishnawbe, Haudenosaunee, and Neutral peoples.
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